Providing a child everything is something all the parents want to or can say need to do. But being able to decide about ‘what to give’, ‘when to give’ and ‘how much to give’ is something more important, isn’t it? Overabundance snatches away the joy of seeking! So, if as parents we intend the children to explore new horizons, we first need to curb ourselves from being their servants and should have to focus on becoming their life support, don’t you agree?
સંબંધોનું ગણિત અને બાળકો – શું વ્યાજબી/ગેરવ્યાજબી? 4 (16)
ક્યાંક વાંચેલું કે, “જીવન એક એવું ગાણિતિક સમીકરણ છે જ્યાં આપણે વધુ નફો મેળવવા માટે માત્ર નેગેટીવ ને પોઝીટીવમાં બદલાતા જ શીખવાનું હોય છે!” સંબંધો છે ત્યાં સુધી ગણતરી હોવાની પણ, જીવનનાં ક્યા તબક્કે શું ઉમેરવું, કે બાદ કરવું કે પછી કોનો છેદ ઉડાડવો એ સતત ધ્યાન રાખ્યા કરવું પડે. સંબંધોના ગણિતમાં પરિવારને બાદ કરી નાખીએ છીએ ત્યારે છેવટે મળતા જવાબમાં નફા-નુકસાનનો તાળો મળતો નથી . થોડી સમજણ, જતું કરવાની વૃત્તિ અને અપેક્ષા વિનાની સહજતા સાથે બધાને સાથે રાખી જીવનનું ગણિત ગણીએ ત્યારે, ખુશીઓનો ગુણાકાર થતો રહે છે!
08. Keeping it real! – Parenting Article 4.8 (4)
Having a career is necessary today, but giving kids a healthy bringing up is inevitable. Parents themselves first need to accept that life is not a fantasy neither it’s a fiction. What actually works here is some innovation and lots of experience. Letting the kids grow with family’s support and care is something very important and practical. Instead of believing and following in some random theories, parents will have to believe in the family n that’s for real!
શું આપના બાળકો તૈયાર છે? 4.3 (20)
આપણે બાળકોને કેળવવાનો મૂળ હેતુ ભૂલી રહ્યા છીએ એટલે જ કદાચ માર્ગ શોધવા પડે છે. જો સ્વીકારી લઈએ કે આપણી કેળવણી એ બાળકોનાં જીવનમાં માત્ર મૂળાક્ષરો જ રહેશે બાકીની ગાથા તેમણે જાતે જ લખવાની થશે તો, એમને શું શીખવવું એ નક્કી કરવાનું સરળ થઇ જશે. બાળકને ભવિષ્ય માટે તૈયાર કરવા એ જવાબદારીનાં બોજા હેઠળ કચડાવાને બદલે તેમને વર્તમાનમાં જીવવા માટે જરૂરી તેવું તમામ જાતે જીવીને શીખવીએ કે પૂરું પાડીએ એ એમના અને આપણા માટે એક સ્વસ્થ, આનંદમય જીવનનાં ઘડતરનો એકમાત્ર ઉકેલ છે, ખરું ને? આપનાં પ્રતિભાવો ચોક્કસ લખી જણાવશો.
07. The roller coaster ride begins – Parenting! 3.5 (2)
Parenting is a funny business. I believe the kids are apprentices of Karma. They make us pay for whatever we’ve done to our parents! Who else could help people feel excited about cleaning shit with a happy face and a contented heart? Yet a kid is the only individual who’ll introduce you with a better, a different and more patient person you have started becoming while parenting.
06. A big syllabus starts! – Parenthood Article 5 (1)
J. Krishnamurti said, “There is no end to education. It is not that you read a book, pass an examination, and finish with education. The whole of life, from the moment you are born to the moment you die, is a process of learning.” – so, whether you’re the kid or the parents, learning is a process you undergo together. And we need not to decide about ‘what to learn’, what we all should care for is ‘How to learn!?’ This whole process adds up the beauty, happiness n knowledge to our lives.
05. Be patient, pray more! – Parenting Article 5 (1)
Socrates said, “Our prayers should be for blessings in general, for God knows best what’s good for us!” So, blessing the baby with the ability to sustain hope, faith, and courage along with some deep rooted patience is in our control, everything else the world will let it learn!
04. Trying not to try! – Parenting Article 5 (2)
If you’re dreaming for a kid who can change the course of the world and can be able to think out of box, then stop building a box first! Parents can only help the children grow wings without deciding how far they’d fly. Else just loving and believing in your kids would do miracles.
03. Passing on the sanity! – Parenting Article 5 (3)
Every parent intends to give the baby what is best for him/her. While crafting this ‘what to give syllabus’, we forget some basic rules that’d help us build a genuine life! Handing over the acumen will be sufficient for the kid. Providing with a sense of balance and stability will do the rest.
02. Facing the right direction. – Article for Parents 4.8 (5)
What to do to get those desired qualities in your kid? We all know that parenting doesn’t come with a guidebook so, want some dependable ideas? I have these parenting tips in this article just for you. And by the time, why don’t you try these ways to become wonderful parents?
01. Feeling it from day one. – Parenting Article 5 (1)
Having children undoubtedly gives us immense pleasure, but it also gives a chance to become a selfless person. Parenting is all about loving the kids unconditionally, giving them a part of wisdom, experiences, wealth, affection, moral support one has earned in years and don’t expect a single favor for doing everything one can. It is a scope for us to become a better individual. All of us may have different parenting styles, but what we do is to give this world a worthy citizen, a great Human being!
Parenting the parents 4.4 (8)
In going with the flow of life, we almost forget that taking care of aging parents is not a duty but an honor. Whenever you feel like you’re stuck looking after them, meet some friends who’ve lost their parents before time.
Parenting – the ultimate challenge 3.8 (4)
Parenting doesn’t come with a ‘how to-’ guideline, giving you a chance to create your own struggle stories, fun stories, blunder stories that you will be sharing with your family on some weekend dinners! This article here will help you with your learn-as-you go process of parenting.